I watched the funeral procession in awe today. Police escorts were needed, the followers seemed endless. As an observer, I tried to imagine who the person might be and what he or she had done in their lives to amass such a crowd. I was able to decipher that they must have loved motorcycles. There were at least 30 bikers in the front of the procession. The cars were both shabby and luxurious which brought to mind a person who had friends and family from all walks of life. That might help to explain the huge following. When one chooses who comes into their life based on their goodness and not their assets, they are usually loyal to the end.
You cannot help but wonder if their time here on this earth was spiritually rewarding. We can all walk through life, and chart our course with caution. Was this a person who threw caution to the wind? Did they base their life decisions on safety or did they take risks? If you think about it pragmatically, which is the better of the two? I think it comes down to what works best for you and your peace of mind.
At the end of the day, we all live our lives the way that we chose. Some say that others influence our decisions. Adults can choose who they allow to influence them and whose voices they choose to cast out. For me, it is a constant struggle to live my life by my own design.